personal review on : 500 days of summer (movie)

it was 2009, i watched this movie at first. i dont really fancy the movie as the ''summer'' is very annoying but i love the director's way in producing this movie. it may looked like some low budget movie because not much of actions and not much of characters, instead, they used narrator. i never though i would watch it again. therefore, as usual, my routine, i would read some blogs, some reviews about it. there is one question from the reviewer captured my ''innocent'' attention ''why there is no continuation story about autumn?''

i didnt have the energy to watch another ''500 days of summer'' because for me, its pathetic way or most bitchy reason to leaves someone after quite sometime being together (based on summer's reason leaving tom). well, to be informed, this movie is not a love story. its talking about life in general

however, 2011, last night i watch it again and finished up the last part of the movie.

i refer myself as the 'autumn' girl . people doesnt like autumn (for the 4 season countries) because autumn is the part where most of the leaves and trees are bold..lol.. fall season.. my past life, boys always failed to recognized my charm or appreciated me . they would dump me for some stupid reason which i disagreed. or they would make me as an optional just as how summer do in the movie, tom was just an optional. i always blamed them

well, as time flies, as ive found someone i could learn to love and loved, AGAIN, i see this movie in a different ways.

in life, we cant really rely on fate alone. summer was the person who doesnt belief in fate and true love but tom is. in the end of the movie, both of them switched their belief. actually both of them is on the right track only the way the view is unstable.

when tom meet autumn, he realised, he needs to take the action with ASSURANCE. no more waitting for fate or no more miracle. all he needs to do is being open up and take the actions to make friend with autumn. if he ever just walk out the lobby without inviting autumn for a coffee, he would not see the miracle of knowing such a lovely lady like autumn. Autumn has been around him for a while because she always sight Tom at the plaza. unfortunately, Tom never been observant enough to see autumn because he was too focused on summer.

at the meantime, summer is believing, her husband is her fate because if she ever come late to the cafe or not coming to the cafe or read another book, her husband would not have approached her. it was because she was not the one taking the actions approaching the guy but she CHOOSE her own decision to stay with the guy. its all coming back to the same point with Tom new belief .

even God reminds us about death. death is awaiting but not Him to choose how and when for us to die. its all about our CHOICE of lifestyle.

years back, i never noticed victor, he was in my clas for 2 years. the 2nd year, i started to noticed him but i never have the nerves to say hi. he never approached me as well as how most of my classmate did, (hotness most wanted girl, who wouldnt approach? :P ). one day i saw him in my house, we did talk then we stopped but then in the end i started to view his fb and take my gut on the keyboard to comment on his pic. he inbox me asking about our class registration, since then till now, i never regret ''stalking'' him at uni cafe and his fb. if i never take the actions to comment on his fb pic, he would not being my friend and being a part of my life.

last year feb when i cried after knowing my ex bf which happened to be my closed friend now, left to UK for his study. he did purposely. he told me, he did his best to get me back, he came to miri, try to mingle with my friend, try to come and say hi to my parent but i didnt responded well. i never knew he was trying to straigthen up his mistake. well, it was my choice for not letting him to be a part of me anymore. if i ever choose to come back with him, i would not have any chance to know victor. i would not have the chance to graduates maybe or i would not have the chance to come back to miri as i am now.

i can go by giving a lot of thousand of stories about our action to make it looks like it is fate but its depend on u in designing ur own life with the support of our Father, Jesus.

p.s: do watch the movie before u can understand my review