i have phobia in making friends ..
usually i be friend with people because there is issue involved or we are placed in the same room or the person approached me first or if the person approached me in a brilliant way ..
not to blame my proud or kesombongong, its a phobia after betrayed my my best friend when i was 14 years old .. i cant really recalled hows d story but i still keep in touch with the girl but we r not really talking anymore, she just added me in fb and dats all .... LIFE !
HOWEVER, now seems like i have a lot friends, in my office , i have 2 pleaseant and cheerfull ladies to cheer my working hours, in church i have bountiful blessing from the youth and after-university-life i have like 2 still remain best friend which we contacted , gossiped ( cant avoid that) and love each other conditionaly ...
our life without friends are like eye-shadows make-up without compact double layered face powder. still can go on but would fade away because of sweat
but be careful in choosing best friend or in pouring out your heart or secret .... not all people care about it , they just want to know and laugh at your back
xoxo
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ReplyDeleteThere was this situation of mine. Where my ex roommate used to be so dear to me but everything changed when we moved in to this hostel. I just hate how gossips turn life into hatred and all that I do is simply stop "lepak-ing" with her. We used to watch tv together with the other but now I'd rather be alone in my room reading and do my own stuffs. :)
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ReplyDeleteyeah i had the same situation too back in uni ...
i always tell my friends or my sister ''the best friend of all is who is still talking with you after your university life ''
i was in uni hostel too before, because of gossip , i moved outside and rent a room for myself, feeling lonely but i feel a lot better . no body would care if im broke no money to go buy kfc -just eat maggie me, or nobody would know if i come home late ...
however, without all this situation, we wont be wise to choose or to understand the meaning of friendship ... so lets still be thankful and learn to trust new friend :P .. altho its hard, just try