Wednesday, September 7, 2011

If i ever have a baby

i promised to myself, if i never get married in the age of 32 . let me rephrase it .. yes ! 32 .. i would start to look for adoption program .. my desire to have a baby is stronger than having a husband by that age .. im serious! I dont want to talk much about why i desire to have baby more than having a husband by the age of 32 but i want to write on my dream of having a baby ..
If i have a baby :

  1. i would name him , Abel ( the first generation ever in the bible) or if her, jasmine ( i love the flower and it sounds lovely for a lady)
  2. I would read loudly to my baby everytime i have time or everytime before goes to bed. (my parent never did that but still the reading habits cultivated in us .. )and pray together with my baby ( my parent never be the perfect parent but they pray for their kids , thats make them the perfect parent ever.)
  3. I would create scrap book or album for my baby's progression and of course to blog about my daily life with my baby. ( i might be the most popular blogger and mother at the same time )
  4. I would let my parent to babysit my baby because i want my baby to enjoy the love of Grandparent ( my grandmom died when i was 5, then the rest of my grandparent never have the chance to stay closed with me coz of the distance)
  5. I would go for jogging while pushing the baby cart ... i want my baby to enjoy the park scenery everyday
  6. I would cultivate the habits of eating natural or organic food to my baby . healthy lifestyle
  7. I would not put t.v in my bedroom for less radiation effect on my sleeping baby (i have to watch my fav show in the living room)
  8. I would start to open up a bank account or investment for my baby for the future education and etc expenses ( the mistake my parent did, they never open 1 for me)
  9. I would tag my baby along to watch dance or music or art class ( i hope he or she would be one of my successsor in the church to teach the kids in dance, music or drama )
  10. I would love my baby as how i love myself or even more than loving myself

This is baby xavier, my nephew .. my favourite baby ever ... Everytime i look at him or play with him or babysit him .... my desire to have baby is growing stronger and stronger .. i love this baby , he is smart, obedient, polite and cutest of the cutest ..


xoxo

*p/s im still looking for a husband material and get my own child tho .. this is just a dream which it may happen of not to happen